Saturday, June 12, 2010

Which or That ???

I've always had trouble with grammar. Plus I'm a lousy speller. Been that way all my life. But now, with spell check on the computer, and so many sites divoted to helping you, I really have no excuse. Along with, of course, my Writer's Digest, their Questions & Quandaries section has been the best part of the whole magazine. I've ripped these pages out and just placed them into a notebook in a plastic sleeve, so that when I can't remember how to use certain words, I can just grab it and flip to the page.

It isn't just how to use a word like which, but other words as well. It can get rather confusing: Lay or lying; it's or its; who or whom; lead, lead or led? And there's all sorts of sound-alike words. Like compliment or complement. If you don't know what to watch for, you can read right through and not even notice such a minor (or major?) error, and I know I've probably done this with certain other words. Aside from the word "which", my all-time favorite: Affect vs. Effect. It stumps me every time, but thanks to Brian A. Klems of Writer's Digest, dummies like me get help when we need it.

I had to go through the entire manuscrip in order to find every "which", to make sure I hadn't miss-used it. This was easy to do, even in a manuscript that is over 300 pages long. I just used my "find & replace" option on the computer. Of course, being careful not to hit the "replace" button, until I checked it, plus, if I did change it, I would still have to illiminate the comma in the sentence, and probably rewrite the sentence. In some cases I could see that I needed to re-write it, or could simply split the sentence into two.

I discovered a new (to me) site called "Grammar Girl" I found this site where you can read, or listen to explanations of common grammatical conundrums. It is very easy to use, and has all the problem words lined up on about 4 or 5 pages that you can click on which ever one you want--ooo, there's that word again--and it will take you to a separate page for a full explanation and usage.

I liked her "quick and dirty tips" in each section. Mignon Fogarty goes into very detailed usage, hitting anything you might need on the word(s) in question. I placed her site on my desk top. I can't live without it.

With my dyslexia, the find and replace option helps me find words that might have slipped by me several times, not knowing that I'd miss-used or miss-spelled it. Which makes me so darned mad!


  1. Thanks for the website! I will check it out. For me it is definitely vs defiantly - totally different words, I know, but they gets me every time!

  2. Thanks for the post. I think everyone of us have issues with the nuts and bolts of writing. For me, I could never be an English Teacher. I know how to do it, but cannot explain it. I know when a sentence is incorrect, but I can't give you the Webster's explanation as to why. LOL!
    Have a great week.

  3. Excellent link! I use my find & replace option quite a bit! Grammar is kind of my thing though. My hubby says I have a nack for it like some people do for sports. Always been that way. Don't worry, I know how lucky I am!

  4. Wow, guys! Thanks for leaving a comment on this. I'll always share anythig I find with you all.

    And Heather--are you for hire?? (;

  5. I haven't been to the site yet but I did get the book--made from some of the tips on the site--at the library a few months ago. It's awesome!
    I still suck at spelling though :(
    Really, I have been asked on forums whether or not English is my first language! Grated that person was a b**ch anyway but I am really bad. lol
    But yes, I too love the Questions & Quandaries section.
    (To prove my point I used spell check 8 times in this post!)

  6. Good for you, Amelia! I suck at spelling too. Until I got my little Spelling Ace, I had to look up words before I got a computer. This is a great device, flat, fits in the palm of your hand, and you enter whatever you're trying to spell, andit will usually correct it for you. This is still right next to me.

    I have posted on how a teachr made me feel once in school on my other post called "Something Nebulous Within", if you, or anyone else want to read some up-lifting things, or things about how I struggled. All 4 of my posts has something for everyone (:

    Keep at it, it's an up-hill battle. I know. I just did 4 hours of searching for miss-used words--like I used past for passed over 30 x's!!


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